In the midst of a divorce and even long after a divorce, things can get ugly. Sadly, it is the children from the marriage that suffer the most harm. If you end up back in court over false abuse accusations, child support problems, or child custody and placement issues, there is a very high chance that you will need a child custody attorney. This lawyer represents your best interests. Here is what you can expect and how to prepare yourself for the outcome.

They Gather Information from You about You, Your Parenting Role and Responsibilities, and Your Ex

These lawyers want to know which parent is better suited to care for the children and support them financially. In many families, there is a breadwinner parent and a stay-at-home parent. However, if you are able to work from home and care for the children, you can still be the parent who should take primary responsibility for the children. Who resolves discipline problems at home and at school?  Which parent has been absent for more of the children's lives? Your custody lawyer needs this information in order to show the court that you are there for your children often and you support them better than your spouse does or can. Custody is often awarded based on which parent has a stable residence, an active part in the children's lives, and which parent is on solid financial ground.

They Talk to the Children 

More than likely, your lawyer will meet with your children. The lawyer will ask them all kinds of questions regarding you and your spouse and life at home. Then the lawyer will ask the children which parent they would rather live with. Children are encouraged to respond as they please, so be aware that your kids could respond either way or no way. If your children say they would prefer to live with you, your lawyer can use this information to bolster your case. 

They Speak to the Court

The court process will be difficult, but your child custody lawyer can fight any decision the courts make if you do not like the outcome or think the custody and placement split is unfair or unequal. Your lawyer will present your case and ask for the placement and custody you want, but your ex will also make requests. It is the judge who decides based on the information they are given by the lawyers.

For more information, contact child custody attorney services.